Sharing, daring and caring

This is (sort of) an entry for the Mabel's Labels BlogHer 2009 contest. They're searching for a blogger to send to BlogHer'09. Even though I can't attend BlogHer this year, I thought that participating in the contest would be a fun excercise. Visit Mabel's website for contest rules and regulations.

What have been the rewards and benefits of participating in the blogging community?

For me, the rewards and benefits of participating the blogging community can be summed up in three words: sharing, daring and caring.

Pssst. That's lovely and all. But the rules stipulate that you need to use at least 250 words.
Hrm? Oh. Right. Well then, let me elaborate.


This blog started out as a companion blog to an online cartoon. A place to write my thoughts related to the comic strip, without interrupting the cartoon's train of thought. Unexpectedly, the cartoon's train of thought derailed.

The blog, however, remained and was used primarily as a place to collaborate with other students as we fine-tuned our mad drawing skills. Blogging is a terrific venue for collaboration and peer support in learning.

2007_11_29_potty_training_manualThe nature of the blogging beast is that through this medium we're able to share our day to day experiences.

On a good day, we'll find that some of them are things that resonate with other people too.

There is much to learn from what other people share:

Acceptance and understanding is fostered by reading about people in circumstances different than your own. It extends beyond the at-home mom reading about the ins and outs of moms that work outside of the home and vice versa.

The more people share, we learn and are able to appreciate the whole mom. The photographer mom. The environmentalist mom. The writer mom. The cartoonist mom. Because blogging reaches beyond the boundaries of motherhood, we can get a glimpse behind the eyeballs of screenwriters, actors and television personalities as well.

No question is too big or too small to ask when there are blogs like AskMoxie to shed light on every form of parenting dilemna. We're amazed at the small everyday things that we can do to make our lives just a little bit easier via blogs like ParentHacks. Controversies in parenting can be explored in depth with The Mother Of All Parenting Experts.

The thing about the internet, is that word travels fast. So when someone gets a really daring and creative idea, it spreads virally. On your own, would you ever consider:
As we read about the daring of others on their blogs, we can be inspired, in whatever small way, to think more creatively about things in our personal world.

When you read about the day to day minutia of people's lives, there's bound to be some “less than Hallmark worthy" moments. It's very uplifting to see people commiserate, offer suggestions and otherwise be supportive to other bloggers during the low points in their lives.

And while it's true that virtual baby-sitting isn't here yet -- your bloggy friends can't give you a break from your crying teething baby -- sometimes having someone else comment “me too" can make all the difference in the world.

After you've been there for the lows, being there for the good times is all that much sweeter. Like seeing a brand new baby or an adorable video of an almost one year old.

Quite frankly, it doesn't get much more inspiring than this video of a grade-schooler doing well after a successful liver transplant.

Connections are made. Friendships are formed. Some are virtual. Some spill over into real life. (And it's been suggested that connectedness is important ingredient for happiness.)

So there you have it. The rewards and benefits of participating the blogging community:
  • Sharing.
  • Daring.
  • Caring.

Oh. And there's also the added benefit of having a digital backup of your memory. You know, just in case.

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Michael said...

Hey Nicole! Hope all is going well!

Thanks again for the Inspiration award. Sorry for not posting it yet. I've been quite busy. I've barely had time to post my newest images.

I promise that I'll get it up soon. Is it the picture of the woman that I have to post?

DaniGirl said...

Oh Nicole -- sigh. I wish you *could* go to BlogHer this year, because with this entry you so deserve to win. By miles and miles the best entry I've read!! (And I'd say that even if it weren't for the gratuituous reference to Lucas!)

Bravo for doing what I was too lazy to do -- giving linky-love to the people who make the blogosphere such an excellent place.

Lee said...

Michael: No worries. Awards are supposed to be joyful, celebratory events! (Not ulcer inducing deadline events.) Yeah, I think it's the painting of the woman that's the requirement.

Dani: I'm always happy to have my ego stroked by a talented writer / blogger like yourself! Those are very kind words indeed!

Your entry was lovely too -- as are all of your posts. I can't wait to see who the finalists are!

(And it's all Caitlin's fault. She knows I can't attend BlogHer this year, but she encouraged me to write up an entry anyway!)

andrea from the fishbowl said...

Awesome entry. So well put. The blogosphere is indeed a wonderful place.

Caitlin Madden said...

Hi Nicole! Alright, I will take the blame for making you enter ;) and you know, I am very glad that you did!
We are going to have a very hard time narrowing it down to 10 bloggers!
Caitlin from Mabel's Labels

Lee said...

Andrea: Thanks for stopping by! (And for the kind words.)

Caitlin: Looking forward to seeing who the 10 finalists are. I sure hope that Dani and Andrea from the fishbowl are two of them!